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Urban Retreat Archives - Inner Door Training

The purpose of training is to become more natural and comfortable... to 'Rediscover Natural Power & Grace'.

I Liq ChuanWe are a kung fu family and by joining us you will have supportive kung fu brothers and sisters. Each member is dedicated to helping all participants learn and grow.

A Living Tradition - Our curriculum builds your awareness. We begin with balancing the body's structure, leading to true relaxation and, with further refinement, the ability to directly comprehend your intrinsic energy. Health, fitness and martial skills are effects of practice and not ends in themselves.

Anyone is welcome from any discipline.

Enjoy!

What Is Training Like?

Learn Chin Family I Liq Chuan, The Martial Art of Awareness.

Our internal mind-body training is straightforward and follows a clearly defined progression.

Join our training community and explore real Chinese Internal Family Arts.

Sifu Kelley Graham is an ILC disciple directly under Grandmaster Sam F.S. Chin.

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Practice consists of solo and partner exercises that develop your awareness & concentration. If you have the awareness, you can get the feel for a movement. If you have the feel and can concentrate, you can become more natural. Martial skill grows from this awareness. This practice can affect permanent change in one's condition.

Classes in order of difficulty is Tai Chi Boost -> Tai Chi Fundations -> 15 Basics -> 21 Form -> I Liq Chuan. 

Classes

I Liq Chuan

Our core training consists of intensive, immersive instruction in I liq Chuan - The Martial Art of Awareness. ILC is a complete internal system of self defense and self cultivation.

Tai Chi Boost

This simple mind and body workout is designed to give a healthful boost to your day. more

Learn Tai Chi Philosophy, Concepts and Principles of Internal Kung Fu. Apply these ideas using the breath, stretching, solo and partner training. Transform your body to transform your mind. 

Manifest profound change in your life.

Training also includes traditional methods and practices from:

  • Mindfulness Meditaton
  • Yang Tai Chi Chuan
  • QiGong (Chi Kung)
  • Nei Gong
  • Zhan Zhuang (postural meditation)
  • Formwork
  • Applications

Private Instruction Individuals & Small Groups (4) - $150 per hour.

Distance Learning We have a program for you. more

Taoist Neigong/Qigong (Chi Kung) Intensive Retreats

Learn To Ring the Body Like a Bell. Connect Tai Chi Principles to the breath and movement for health and long life.

Build on the foundation provided by the Tai Chi Breath.

Sit and Spin Half Day Meditation - Intro to ILC

Seasonal Events
Periodically, Urban Retreat Center members get together to socialize. 

Quarterly Intensives, Overnight Retreats & Workshops Please see the Upcoming events list. more events

Corporate Wellness  Create an intensive, immersive life changing experience for your group, organization of business. more

ILC Kids Contact us for times and eligibility. more

Tai Chi Boost for Seniors more

 

ILC Worldwide HQ I Liq Chuan International

 

What People Are Saying...


Melissa

 I came into the class with a sore, stiff knee from a long hike over the weekend. I was hesitant to do that squat at the end of class but it completely cured my knee. No pain now at all. I would really like to continue this. Thanks! 


 
 My back has been sore for weeks and after the class I had a few hours with very little pain. I plan on continuing the training. Thanks for a great class Kelley. 
 

Lynn 
  Kelley is an excellent instructor. The event was informative and fun. 

 Thank you, Kelley! I had a great time... been curious about Tai Chi for a while and found it delightfully enlightening...


Scott Brenkert  Enlightening, I didn't realize there was so much to it. What a great teacher! 

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IMPORTANT - BEFORE YOU ATTEND YOUR FIRST CLASS

All are welcome from any discipline. Those who wish to commit to becoming a student, please contact Sifu Kelley Graham at 520-770-1200. You must meet with Sifu Kelley for an intake interview and agree to the Physical Waiver of Liability. Anyone can arrange to observe or, better, participate in one complimentary class.  TUITION IS NON REFUNDABLE. There are no sabbaticals, leaves of absence, refunds or returns and notification must be made in writing 30 days in advance

Grandmaster Sam F.S. Chin on I Liq Chuan

 

I Liq Chuan International Please enjoy these discussions on The Martial Art of Awareness from I Liq Chuan Co-Founder & Gatekeeper Master Sam F.S. Chin. More at the I Liq Chuan International website. http://iliqchuan.com

Natural Power & Grace Podcast

This structured media collection consists of the Natural Power & Grace Podcast. Here's a link to the overview page with descriptions. Enjoy.

About

Sifu Kelley Graham has developed the Urban Retreat Method to help students be more relaxed and at ease.

Modern neuroscience and traditional training produce dramatic results.

  • Certified I Liq Chuan Instructor & 2nd Generation Lineage Holder under Master Sam F.S. Chin
  • Certified Yang Taijiquan (Tai Chi Chuan) Instructor Yang Tradition -> Li Zhouchen -> Li Cheng Tung -> Michael Phillips
  • Teaching professional with emphasis on meeting students diverse educational needs.
  • 30+ Years Experience
  • Training emphasis is on the direct experience of the Greater Flow - to relax in all conditions with the cycle of yin and yang.

The Urban Retreat Method is a complete integrative system, practice ranges from gentle non-confrontational qigong & formwork to deep stretching and vigorous partner training.

Join our friendly training community today.

UCB Program - Fall 2102

Open Awareness Meditation

This last Saturday was the Brain Boot Camp event, which was essentially going all day doing periods of open awareness meditation, punctuated by shorter periods of walking meditation.  There were only a couple of short breaks for tea, and one longer one for lunch.  Other than that, we went all day from 8:30ish to 5:00 p.m.  I haven't meditated that extensively in one day in years, and it was an interesting and layered experience.

Open awareness meditation is a fairly new method for me.  I've only done it a few times before with Kelley.  Most of my years of meditation experience are based in Indian Buddhist methods, namely Anapana (breath awareness) meditation, and then Vipassana, sometimes called Insight Meditation.  This method is supposedly the technique taught by the Buddha.

I did Vipassana meditation most every day for years, including two 10 day silent retreats, and I liked the method quite a bit.  I think I was gaining a good bit if mental clarity and insight, and my mind definitely did quiet down significantly, most particularly during the intensives.  I was becoming fairly good at becoming quite still, and sort of unaffected by the trials of life while I was on the cushion.  One thing I did notice though was that I could only take that peaceful state with me out of the meditation hall when I was at a secluded retreat.  Once I had to then return to my normal life in the modern world, the pace and ever present stimulation of the things around me was kind of shocking to my system.  Every car on the road seemed to be going too fast, every radio too loud, every advertisement a minor assault on my senses.  It's something I came to know and accept as an expected transition period after deep meditation.   Probably the most striking thing to me about the all day open awareness meditation was that there wasn't an iota of this hypersensitivity in me at the end of the day.  I felt like I had done a sizeable amount of very good meditation, but going out into the parking lot and driving on the streets in traffic with the radio on didn't require any uncomfortable adjustment at all.  It was all - fine.

One of the hardest parts of my meditation practice, and something I'd been consciously working on for years, was how to get the perceived benefits of the meditation session to last outside of the meditation room.  This open awareness method seems to make this 'problem' a non-issue.  I find it a more difficult method initially, because it doesn't make me feel like I'm meditating, but so far, despite my fondness for the other methods I've learned, I'm really impressed with it.

Waking up, feeling well.

I suppose there are many possibilities. Maybe my structure is such a mess. Maybe my mind is such a mess. Our training, and my personal belief of mind/body connection, says they are one and the same, or at least lead one another. But I damn sure like it when I wake up and my mind is at ease. It seems so rare for the last few years, but especially rare the last few months. I'm not distraught about my life, where I'm at, what's in it, where I'm going, or more problematic, what I'm not doing, who's not in it, and where I'm not going. I'm just awake and it feels good to be just awake, not yet thinking. I'll take this moment, however brief, of relative peace, of relative calm, and simply bask, wallow, and enjoy it for a moment.

Blogging

I will put these up as blogs for you, but I simply cannot believe I will enjoy looking back on where I am. I suppose they can always be deleted.

The Story of The 8 Brothers

This story was told by Master Sam Chin at the 2006 I Liq Chuan Intensive retreat in NY (I recall it fairly well, let me know if I've missed something):

There are 8 brothers working together to run a store.

  • The first five brothers are in charge of the inventory and customers, stocking the shelves etc. and represent the five senses: touch, taste, smell, sight, hearing.
  • The sixth brother is the mind and his role is to tallys up the totals, execute the plans. The mind is the 'sixth sense' and manages the other five).
  • The seventh brother is responsible for judgment and feeling, helping to determine what's important, consider strategy and plans for the future.
  • The eighth brother is the storage center (input/output). Whatever the seventh brother checks in the eighth brother stores perfectly and returns upon request.

The aim of our training is to kill the seventh brother.

Why kill the seventh brother? The seventh brother is only about the past and future, never the present moment. Awareness of and engagement with the present moment helps us capture the 'suchness feel'. 'Suchness Feel' or perceiving 'Things As They Are' is the explicit result of our practice.

In order to progress you must clearly understand the relationship between your 'intention' and your 'attention'. Think of I Liq Chuan as a wonderful and sophisticated toolset for the development of the 'Suchness Feel'..

Sifu Says: Awareness Of Yi, Qi, Liq

Please note the 'How to do it' in the last paragraph. Enjoy! -kg

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Last week in the Pleasant Valley class, Sifu [Sam F.S. Chin] expounded on the importance of maintaining awareness of the interdependence of Yi (mindfulness), Chi (internal energy) and Li (physical force expression). Sifu asked that this edition of 'Sifu Says' deal specifically with the interconnection among these three aspects of iliqchuan.

It is important to be aware of how Yi (awareness), Chi (internal energy) and Li (physical force expression) coordinate in the practice of iliqchuan. Iliqchuan, is not separate from the wholeness of being. Iliqchuan is an art of awareness. Awareness reveals the interdependence between the nature of mind, internal energy and physical result. These three aspects must coordinate without a gap in order for ones expression of iliqchuan to reach the higher levels. Naturally, when students can coordinate these three aspects of being without fault, the mind stays calm and the ability to remain dynamically balanced is enhanced, without effort or egotistical attachment.

On this point Sifu said, 'It is important to emphasize how to use awareness, in order to make sure the chi is correct. Having chi coordinated with awareness, you can be sure physical force is there. This is the meaning of Yi Tao, Chi Tao, Li Tao.'

Literally translated, 'Yi Tao, Chi Tao, Li Tao' means 'mind way, energy way and physical force way'. Mind-way, coordinated with Energy-way, coordinating with Physical force expression results in what may be observed as technique.

In the same class Sifu added more wisdom to his explanation of 'Yi Tao, Chi Tao, Li Tao'. Specifically, Sifu said, 'you must know how to recognize the mind. Recognizing the nature of mind is to recognize cause and consequence. Cause and consequence are sequential, and impact everything. Because iliqchuan understands the interplay of mindfulness with expression, only students of iliqchuan can understand iliqchuan'.

For example, when people try to put iliqchuan into the conceptual 'package' of another art, conceptual limitations come into play, creating a conflict of comprehension. The conflict of comprehension is based on past habits and judgment. Habit and judgment prevent mindfulness. Consequently, since iliqchuan deals with the nature of mindfulness fundamentally, the presence of conceptual conflict blocks the mind from resting on mind and thus hinders full potential and natural response without effort.

Sometimes it may seem difficult to recognize and realize the nature of mind directly. Fortunately, owing to the interdependence of things, it is possible to use the body to support mindfulness. Specifically related to the effective coordination of Yi Tao, Chi Tao and Li Tao, Sifu recommended the following postural considerations.

'Simultaneously balance the dan-tien and ming-men. Work on these two things, work on them together, then the body will be available to recognizing and realizing the coordination of Yi, Chi and Li.'
After such a wonderful teaching, Im sure I speak for all students in saying, 'Thank You Sifu'.
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On Leadership - Tao Te Ching

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From Tao Te Ching

Whoever relies on the Tao in governing men
doesn't try to force issues
or defeat enemies by force of arms,
For every force there is a counterforce,
Violence, even well intentioned,
always rebounds upon oneself.

The master does his job and then stops,
He understands that the universe is forever out of control
and that trying to dominate events
goes against the current of the Tao,
Because he believes in himself,
He doesn't try to convince others,
Because he is content with himself'
he doesn't need others approval,
Because he accepts himself,
the whole world accepts him.

Lao Tzu

Song of I Llq Chuan

Below is our official translation, however one of my students was kind enough to have a non martial artist friend translate. I have found it helpful to shed some light on a very challenging read.

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"To depict the ultimate principles
of the universal laws of
no truth and no untruth state,

The mind should be observed
with awareness

To adapt to the vicissitude of
time and space to no
present and no unpresent state,

force should be harmonized
with awareness."

Non Martial Artist Translation

Force shall be applied harmonically in such a way that it seems to be present and it seems to be absent, which needs to be in consistence with the spatial and temporal changes.

Consciousness (Yi) guides us in such a way that it is not true (you shall not completely trust it or be completely guided by it) and it is not fake (you shall not completely not trust it). The consciousness (Yi) shall be used to explain the universal Truth.

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What Students Say About Training & Everyday Life

Kalama Sutta (Kalama Sutra)

Do not simply believe what you hear just because you have heard it for a long time.
Do not follow tradition blindly merely because it has been practiced that way for many generations.
Do not be quick to listen to rumors.
Do not confirm anything just because it agrees with your scriptures.
Do not foolishly make assumptions.
Do not abruptly draw conclusions by what you see and hear.
Do not be fooled by outward appearances.
Do not hold on tightly to any view or idea just because you are comfortable with it.
Do not accept as fact anything that you yourself find to be illogical.
Do not be convinced of anything out of respect and deference to your spiritual teachers.

You should go beyond opinion and belief. You can rightly reject anything which when accepted, practiced and perfected leads to more aversion, more craving and more delusion. They are not beneficial and are to be avoided. Conversely, you can rightly accept anything which when accepted and practiced leads to unconditional love, contentment and wisdom. These things allow you time and space to develop a happy and peaceful mind. This should be your criteria on what is and what is not the truth; on what should be and what should not be the spiritual practice.

-The Buddha

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